VERY GOOD FRIEND AND OLD GELLI BOY – KEN EMERY
"My review on Amazon...if you can make it go to the talk I'm sure it will be fascinating. First the declaration of interest. I know the author. We grew up in the same village, went to the same schools, and shared many friends.
Richard was in a more sporty clique, I was with a separate group (drinking, cards and quizzing), and like all groups there was a large overlap. Treorchy RFC on Saturday nights, playing football Sunday afternoons on Cookie's field, and listening to music in the Station Cafe. I left the valleys to study in Southampton, and didn't return.
Richard embarked on a series of adventures, all dealt with in his book. Some forty plus years later we were reunited via Facebook, and it was great to take him to watch Southampton v Man City.
The book starts off with a real tear jerker. There is sadness, anger, pride and humour throughout. Richard doesn't pull any punches and his views are forcibly put. I really enjoyed the early part as it was so familiar to me.
The rest of the book was a real eye opener and I was riveted. So many interesting stories, knock downs, get back up again. Setbacks, take it on the chin and move on. South Africa, England, rugby, football, politics, all covered.
What struck me the most is how Richard coped with things that would have broken many people. The theme, if there is one, is that out of adversity, some good can arise. The pride in his children, the support of his wife clearly shine through. Richard does not ignore his mistakes, neither does he forgive and forget. At the end I was pleased to see that my old Gelli mate has not only come through, but has used tragedy to inspire him to do good things for charity.
I can't finish without mentioning his love of Manchester City. If you want to know the story, you need to buy the book, remember proceeds go to charity. Congratulations Richard this is such a readable book, and I thoroughly recommend it."